About 10% of the already passed life, to be exact. Because even with a full and clear understanding of our script, we have a very little opportunity to change it. Of all the 360 degrees of the horizon of possibilities, only 1-2 degrees are available to us at each moment of making a choice.
Much more people are living by the Loser or Victim scenario. And these are not offensive labels spat out from above by the Winners, who constitute about 1% of the population. These are completely scientific terms from the science of scenario analysis. It might seem like no chance, bad luck, the whole world is against me, cruel fate and so on. But in reality, it is the scenario inherited by a person from their older relatives.
How so? After all, with our heads and hearts, we want only the best for ourselves and our children. And not only that, we don’t mind heaven in general for everyone. People are actually quite kind and welcoming. So why do we do all the bullshit to ourselves? The answer is very hard to believe, even when you understand how it works, and what it really is. Too painful, too stupid.
The next problem is to soak it all up and apply to yourself. But after the classic circle of shock, denial, resentment, anger, shame, pity, guilt and forgiveness you can roll up your sleeves and change the destructive program to a constructive one.
1) What did your ancestors die from, including uncles, second cousins, grand-nephews, and even husbands of great-grandmothers’ sisters? This should be attributed not to DNA, but to the actions of these people. Compare their illnesses and deaths with their ways of life, their characters. Notice the patterns and repetitions.
2) What are your favorite fairy tales, movies, games, novels? What characters do you associate with yourself, your parents, friends, spouses, children? Compare these plots with your real life.
3) What repetitions do you notice in your life? Big and small circles of life, traps, emotional situations, dreams, sex?
And when you’re ready to change something, take on the next tool: reprogramming with the help of your parents. Ask me how in the comments or PM.